Thank You / Excitement/ Joy

Hello My Supporters,


I want to share my excitement with you all!

I started my blog in November and had no idea on how to get it together.

I took my time one day and asked a friend a couple of questions and

I was well on my way to setting/starting up my blog.

I am still figuring some things out,(Learning is fundamental).

I have been getting a lot of great feedback from my supporters.

I love it; it took me a very long time to share my inner thoughts with others outside of my Family and for a couple of friends.

My poems & writings are very personal to me. Some of my poetry & writings will be about my experiences, my family, friends or strangers. I finally took that step to get my inner thoughts out there to the world and I wanted to get my creativeness out to the World. I would like to help & relate too many, and I welcome any feedback. I would love a positive feedback but there are people out in this world that may not feel the same as I, you or you. I do respect your opinion and we may not agree but we are all entitled to our own opinion.

I welcome you all to my Blogs, my insight, experiences, choices etc.
I am just so excited to write and get great appreciation and wonderful feedback.
I wrote a poem 12/29/2009 (Meaningless) on my other blog:http://intheknowofsuch.blogspot.com

I had a beautiful conversation with a friend.

This is some of her statements to me:

“That poem has been how I felt and acted my whole life"
“For the first time I felt the irony between good and evil over my soul"
“Of all the poems & stories or anything I have ever read or any movie I've seen, this poem is the one I can relate to"

That is just some of her statements to me, and I tell you I was and still is very emotional because this is a personal poem and it just made me feel really good, well great because she was able to relate and it helped her. She said thank you but I thank her because this makes me really get out there and do what I need to do because I may be able to reach many more. I want to thank you again : ) ! You know who you are!!

I would like to share something else:
I am now searchable in google!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have tried to search my blogs in google and nothing, but I gave it time because patience is a virtue (at times)! LOL

I searched today and I am Searchable in Google, This is also exciting...........................

Thank you........................... : ) Happy Holidays to you all. Great & Positive beginnings to all!!
God Bless you all....

*Please check out my other blog: http://intheknowofsuch.blogspot.com

I want to wish each & everyone a great, safe, loving and new positive life experiences!

The New Year is almost here, what are your plans, who would you be cutting off, who would you start brand new with? New jobs, any new love interests you want to speak of? Who are you or what are , or where are you going for New Years?

I would love to hear from all of you.......Have a Blessed Happy New Year to everyone!!



Myself:
I will be going home to New York, spending time with my Family and Friends!
My sister has not been to Times Square to see the ball drop, so we are going to see that and then taking the A train to Queens where our cousin will be the DJ, and getting our FUN on!
I will have a safe and fun trip and I hope you will all do the same..

Do not drink and drive, get the cab,train, subway, family member or friend that is not drinking to drive!

Have a Beautiful and insightful New Years and stay safe........................

Wish you all

Hello My Supporters,

I know it is a busy time of the year with all of the festivities going on
Take a moment to be thankful for all you have
Love your family, friends and self
God Bless you all and have a Great, Safe and Wonderful Holiday: ) !

Enjoy....

Quote of the Day:

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly.
-Langston Hughes, African-American poet

Just one of my days..................

Have you had the feeling of not being where you want to be in Life?
You know that you are half way there..But some things keep on getting in the way of
I just dont where to go at times, maybe hide under a rock when it is all done
And come out all refreshed and ready to get things in order
I am in a Blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh mood
I know what type of person I am and I know I deserve the best in all things

I get frustrated and sometimes a person may bring me to this point of browsing through my life
I love people and at the same time I do not understand them, You help people out and you know you are doing the best you can But it seems as though they want more and it feels like that are draining you

I have plans and goals that I will achieve! Will not give up!!
I am just having a browse through my life day today!
Feeling all Blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

Settling/Standards

Standards:

Some people set their standards very very high, very high or high about what type of person they would date,  give their time to or fall in love with. Women/Men may have a certain standard on who we are attracted to. We may meet the nicest person and they aren't what we see as (I will date him, or sleep with him or give my number to) because he/she is not the type we are searching/looking for. How would we know that we may have just blown off that person that will love, respect and care for us etc.

Matter of fact we may have just blown that Great Man/Woman off!

Sometimes we may need to lower our standards just a little bit: Someone may aproach me, you or us and he/she may be short/tall, too skinny/fat, baldy/braids or just basically not the ideal type that we would give our time to.
He/she can be that person for us, we will never know unless we give that person a chance. That person may be your inside description of that Great Man/Woman you have been looking for all along.

Settling:

Now, settling is a different from standards. Do not settle for less always know that you deserve the best from a man/woman. Everyone has their own definition of not settling for less.

My definition: Not to be the second woman, be disrespected, lied to, played games with, abused mentally, physically or emotionally, given the run around etc.

So, lowering your standards is not settling. It is a world of difference between the two.

Love has no face, body, color, eyes, lips or clothes because,
                                                                                          LOVE   is  Blind  !!
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                         
P.S This was brought to my attention from my male friend, once again ! :)
You know who you are!

My Personal Story Part2

Their is no Good/Great Men anymore!
Their isnt any Good/Great Women left in this World!
I am done with searching or wanting to be bothered with a Man, I am Done....
I am done with looking for a Woman that is for me because their are not any Good Women....

We all have said these statements once, twice, three and so on times and time again!!
We have said it because we are hurt, sad, mad and just discouraged and many of us do bounce back....

And some of us do not bounce back because we have just given up because their is'nt anyone Good enough for us to Love or have them Love us back!!

I bring this to your attention like this because have you ever thought that by saying this, we are questioning & have no faith in God?

We are saying that God has not made a Good/Great enough man/woman for me, you and us!

I had to bring this to you, you and your attention, because I have not thought about it this way.
This was stated to me by my male friend....

I will tell you this, I was in deep thought of what he brought to my attention. I do not want to question the Lord about this because I know he has someone that is MY Great Man. I will meet him and he will meet me one day, It takes time and patience and I know it gets frustrating because I have kissed enough Frogs :) and I will be ready for my prince(My Great Man) when he comes along.

Just a little food for thought....

Note: I do have my hope back :)
This is a snippet of our conversation, will bring more to your attention tomorrow....

My Personal Story/The First Insider Thoughts of me

This is the first personal story to share, and it is hard for me because I am a Private Person:

I began to think that I may be the last woman on earth that still believes that their is Good, no Great men out in this World that will compliment me (Great Woman). I have been hurt, disappointed and in pain once or twice. I still wanted to believe that their is a Great man out there that would be Great for me. I still had that hope after my hurt, pain and disappointments.

I have friends that do not believe in a Good or even a Great man being available for them anymore. They believe that he does not exist because of their bad, hurtful, disappointing life experiences with a man.

However, I  had the hope of me and him finding each other one day, until last night I had this long conversation with one of my good male friends and I seen him as a Great man that has been hurt & disappointed and now he has his heart that needs to heal over time.

We have had many conversations before, but last night I seen a different man in my eyes, to me he turned out to be a typical man that play head games with someone that cares for him. I just opened my eyes fully, no longer slanted to the naive fact that their is Great men that still exist for me any longer.

Just a small Description/ Definition of my Great Man:
                                                Real, Trustworthy, Family Oriented, Polite, Respectful of his family/himself, Loving, Caring, Understanding, A Challenge to a degree, Smart, Funny, Down to Earth, Dress nice, Smell Good(Great Hygeine), Great Smile(Teeth,Great), Dimples,Not cheap, Romantic, Playful etc.
I think I  can do without dimples LOL!!

That is a small description of my Great man. :) He may have some issues but issues that I can deal with it. No one is perfect and we all have flaws and some type of issue.

Example: Sarcasim(some people may be able to deal with it and others may not).

Now my male friend, he was my last hope because he is most of my description, with the exception of being sarcastic at times, and that is fine because I can be sarcastic at times.
See we both understand each other because we are both Taureans : ) !
I knew that with him being my friend he gave me hope of finding my Great man one day but when I found out about his mind game that he is playing with a lady friend of his made me lose all hope in finding my Great man one day!

We continued our conversation throughout the night and he did explain to me that I should not give up hope in that Great Man because he is out there. That I am a Great woman and do not let him be the one that destroys my hope in finding him because it is still Good/Great men out here in the World.

He has been hurt and agrees with me that he should not believe that all women are not the same (NO Good) because of what happened to him. So, I should not feel that way towards men because of our conversation. He did explain that he needs to know if his lady friend did indeed sleep with a friend of his some years ago, and if she has then he can have closure and move on. Because, she is the one that he would like to end up with later on.

After our long conversation and seeing that he cares about how I feel. He would not get off the phone with me until I understood that I should not stop the hope of having my Great man because of him.
I am still on my decision, and maybe it is because I'm being stubborn and once I really make up my mind I am stuck on my decision "(Stop being a Taurus) " stated by my friend) that I will need to give it alot of thought and  that takes time.I will hopefully have that hope again within me that a their is a Great man in this World, My Great Man that is still exists!

Note: He did text me today, to check on me: )
I still love you friend....You know who you are... Their is hope that I will have that hope again....

Written By: Mamas Girl Alexis

Reply to Anonymous:

Hello,
I received a comment that did not pertain to my blog, however that is fine because we get to talk about anything that is brought to my attention. This is the comment:

Anonymous said...


Is everyone as tired of the "Forehead (Rihanna)" as much as I am!! not pertainin to this blog of course!!

I will and must Reply to Anonymous:


I am tired of searching the web and all you see is Rihanna. I understand she needs the publicity to make record sells, but enough already! I do like some of Rihanna work, however she is using the abuse thing to her advantage or at least trying to. I believe it is 2 sides to a story and I feel as though they both may have been wrong in that situation. Everyone has their say on this situation as well as I do. I believe two wrongs does not make any situation right. No matter how anyone else feels about what happen that night, it still stands that it was Rihanna & Chris in that vehicle that night. Rihanna has a career and as well as Chris, both of them had their say in their interviews. Both are moving on in the music industry and looking to eat!
However, Please give Rihanna a break in tabloids and search engines.

Is Love Alive

I would like to hear from you, you and you!
Is LoVe alive anymore ?
Are you afraid to let your guard down because of past hurts, disappointments and pain?
Is LoVe worth the time to many anymore?

Power of Dating

I have male friends and we talk about females and males relationship(s)  because it has changed over time. Dating has changed alot and us women can be misinformed at times. It can be someones' first time on the dating scene, or a divorcee back on the dating scene. I was told by one of my male friends and he stated this to me:  It is best to just hang out and go dutch with a man, then to have him pay for everything? Alot of men think that if he pays for the whole date, then he may expect something in return, it gives the man the power!

What is your take on this?