I have a great poem that a friend/co-worker allowed for me to read and then she passed this great poem out to each co-worker on our team. I would like to share this poem with you all because it is uplifting and very inspirational.
* His eyes are looking to and fro seeking whom he can send a blessing to.
He looks upon us so lovingly.
The eyes that watch over our souls are happy, angry and sometimes sad.
God's eyes see the beginning and the end of our lives. They are the windows of our soul.
Will we touch his heart enough that the course of our life will change?
Will we recognize that he knows all and sees all.
Will our discernment let us recognize what he is seeing is me?
He watches as his children live a life before him with no thought that it pains
him to see our conduct.
We have no appreciation of the great sacrifice of his son Jesus so that we can
be free of the curse of the forbidden tree.
What we have given in return is to live our lives in a manner we see fit.
Decisions made without thinking and praying about it; because we have
forgotten to seek him for an answer.
We live our lives on borrowed time not knowing what the next second, minute
or hour will bring.
We foolishly think that tomorrow will come because we have been deceived by the enemy.
We fail to pray to him during our quiet time.
We say we have the faith of a mustard seed. How is that true when we have
removed ourselves from prayers?
Yet GOD watches with patience and in awe and in anticipation that we will change.
We take his precious love for granted by thinking he owes us more.
We in our selfishness do not stop to ask him "God" can I do anything for you.
Not a moment passes that he does not love us.
Did you know that every pain we feel he feels it also?
It is just something so tangible about his love. When I think of his goodness and all that he has done for me it makes me want to dance, shout and scream hallelujah.
The question is why can"t we do more for him?
He desires to see a world harmonized coming together in unity as one.
His love is about giving to the broken hearted and bringing us back to him.
What will it take to make this happen in a world and nation so cruel with no
regards to mankind?
We kill the innocent then try to justify it by saying that we are doing his will.
I think of the countless missionaries, the women and children in the third world countries
such as Sudan.
The ones who are raped and brutally beaten by the ones they should trust the family
members brothers and friends.
The world has no justifiable reason why it continues to turn. Wake up people can't you see the wars and rumors of wars. The destruction of earth quakes in places far and near. The way the seasons are changing and it is called global warming. Well from what I have read int the great
book it is called the last days.
What if God decided to close his eyes for a minute from all the sickness and shame?
It saddens the heart of God so that he weeps, watches and waits.
He is waiting for the ones that are willing to stand up and hold the blood stained banner.
To shout from the mountain tops that for God I'll live and for him I will die. To teach the
word in places that others are not willing to go.
He commands us to love one another and expects nothing less.
His love for us is unconditional that is why his eyes rest on this great nation.
What are you willing to do to bring joy and laughter into the eyes of God?
This is dedicated to the father of this Universe my true love above our Father that sits high
and looks down low.
Written By: Ms. A
I hope all of my Beautiful People like this great poem....
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Thursday, March 18, 2010
My Blogger Award Presentation....
Hello Beautiful People!
I received my first award and it is great.
I received my first award and it is great.
I have 10 questions to answer before my award can be posted.
I want to thank you Melissa for the award, it means a great deal to me, I love it!
The questions of getting to know mamasgirlalexis a little more, hahahaha....
Melissa: What age was the very best for you so far?
Mamasgirlalexis: 1st answer of 2.
I would have to say from when I was born up until 18 years of age. The reason would be that more of my loved ones (family & friends) were around. Had no responsibilities, had fun being a tom boy! Well I am still a little tom boy at times.
My second answer: My age now, which is my 30's and best believe it is great. I can remember turning 30 and I was so depressed because I was no longer in my 20's and not where I wanted to be in life.
I will say that it is great getting to know me all over again, learning things (learning never stops) and I am finding me ( mamasgirlalexis). I am getting to the point of where I want to be in life, it takes time and patience and wanting the best for self.
Melissa: Did you have a "coming of age "summer?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would have to the age of 18, because I was in my first relationship and he was my first everything (If you know what I mean). This was a new level and a new stage of my life.
Melissa: How old were you when you got boobs (or hips) ?
Mamasgirlalexis: Wow, I really do not know. I guess when I was 13 or 14 yrs of age. I was so much into being a tom boy, I really didn't notice and many of my male friends didn't either. I would wear really large shirts and tees. They did not know that I had boobs, lol! I remember one of my male friends said the girls around here have large boobs and at least you N***a do not need to worry about that because you don't have any. LOL ! (Little did he know, what was under my shirt)
Melissa: Who was the worst teacher you ever had, and why?
Mamasgirlalexis: I guess I would say Ms. Schafer and the reason she stinks out in my mind is because she held me back in 1st grade for 1 point. Yep, one point and first grade beautiful people. She did it because I was her favorite pupil and she did not want me to leave her class. Dang, Melissa you have me being real personal, geezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!! : ( (Thinking to Self) Damn, first grade, I mean come on!!!!
Melissa: When you were in H.S, did you have a guy you thought was the one?
Mamasgirlalexis: Nope, not in H.S.
Melissa: How old were you the first time you had an alcoholic drink?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would have to say 16 yrs of age. I did like my wine coolers! I know it is kool aid, but so what. It had at least 1% of alcohol, so it counts! hahahahaha
Melissa: How old were you the first time you tried a drug?
Mamasgirlalexis: Wow, OK! There you go getting personal, lmao!
I was 24 yrs of age, and it was OK! I tried it one more time and that was it for me. I was still 24 yrs of age when I tried it the second time.
Melissa: When did you have your first kiss?
Mamasgirlalexis: I was 14 yrs of age, and it was my soul mate. I believe that he was and is to this day.
Where are you Michael Jacobs, from Mount Vernon?
Melissa: When did you wish that you knew then what you know now, when you were younger?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would say now, presently speaking. I would have saved more, invests, no credit cards or just had one credit card. And men, oh boy if I knew what I knew about them, I would have stayed a virgin! LOL! I am doing better about monies. It is a learning process, and I will and am getting better.
Melissa: Share a random confession about your youth?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would like to share that I was a singer and I my groups were Mary Jane Girls and a group called Mtume. And my brother and cousins were the back up singers (Brian, Timothy and Tyrone) . I would wear my weave of a skirt hair before weave was known, my cousins (girl cousin) heels and ankle socks with my comb mic. We were the bestess groups around! Our audience was the greatest and bestess ever known. My mommy, aunt and the rest of my cousins! Give them a round of applause....... Yhay!!
I hope you enjoyed the sneak peep of my inside life, before and now! hahahahaha
Gotta love ya!! Now that I have gladly accepted my Blogger award, there are rules that I would
send the Blogger Award to 5 fellow blogger. This is a great Award that shows that we appreciate you and your blog. And to keep up the great and fantastic writings etc.
My 5 Fellow Blogger Award goes to:
1. Hannahmiet - What can I say about this blogger, her writings of poetry is beautifully written. Her poetry is a work of art, she is a breath of fresh air to the lungs. If you do not know how that feels, then I suggest to take a look at her writings on the wall of blogging.
2. Sugahoney - Her blog is the truth and with the realness of her best life stories which is about her self and friends etc. The life stories have you asking yourself, why haven't she written a book as of yet.
3. Houseofflyness - This blog writings is so inspirational and very uplifting. She is so positive, and she has a great outlook on life.
4. Sexandthesouthernbelle - Her blog is very informational, funny and would keep your attention.
5. Somanylosers - What can I say, his blog is .... Check it for yourself.... I like his blog alot!!!!
He holds nothing back and I like that about him. He has you think, think and think again. : )
So, there you have it, my 5 fellow blogger is being awarded the Sunshine Blogger Award.
You bring the smiles, cries, and the laughter and much more out of me. You all deserve this award for your each individual and unique selves. Keep up the great blogs....
Later Beautiful People and I hope my brother and cousins do not read this post! LOL
I want to thank you Melissa for the award, it means a great deal to me, I love it!
The questions of getting to know mamasgirlalexis a little more, hahahaha....
Melissa: What age was the very best for you so far?
Mamasgirlalexis: 1st answer of 2.
I would have to say from when I was born up until 18 years of age. The reason would be that more of my loved ones (family & friends) were around. Had no responsibilities, had fun being a tom boy! Well I am still a little tom boy at times.
My second answer: My age now, which is my 30's and best believe it is great. I can remember turning 30 and I was so depressed because I was no longer in my 20's and not where I wanted to be in life.
I will say that it is great getting to know me all over again, learning things (learning never stops) and I am finding me ( mamasgirlalexis). I am getting to the point of where I want to be in life, it takes time and patience and wanting the best for self.
Melissa: Did you have a "coming of age "summer?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would have to the age of 18, because I was in my first relationship and he was my first everything (If you know what I mean). This was a new level and a new stage of my life.
Melissa: How old were you when you got boobs (or hips) ?
Mamasgirlalexis: Wow, I really do not know. I guess when I was 13 or 14 yrs of age. I was so much into being a tom boy, I really didn't notice and many of my male friends didn't either. I would wear really large shirts and tees. They did not know that I had boobs, lol! I remember one of my male friends said the girls around here have large boobs and at least you N***a do not need to worry about that because you don't have any. LOL ! (Little did he know, what was under my shirt)
Melissa: Who was the worst teacher you ever had, and why?
Mamasgirlalexis: I guess I would say Ms. Schafer and the reason she stinks out in my mind is because she held me back in 1st grade for 1 point. Yep, one point and first grade beautiful people. She did it because I was her favorite pupil and she did not want me to leave her class. Dang, Melissa you have me being real personal, geezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!! : ( (Thinking to Self) Damn, first grade, I mean come on!!!!
Melissa: When you were in H.S, did you have a guy you thought was the one?
Mamasgirlalexis: Nope, not in H.S.
Melissa: How old were you the first time you had an alcoholic drink?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would have to say 16 yrs of age. I did like my wine coolers! I know it is kool aid, but so what. It had at least 1% of alcohol, so it counts! hahahahaha
Melissa: How old were you the first time you tried a drug?
Mamasgirlalexis: Wow, OK! There you go getting personal, lmao!
I was 24 yrs of age, and it was OK! I tried it one more time and that was it for me. I was still 24 yrs of age when I tried it the second time.
Melissa: When did you have your first kiss?
Mamasgirlalexis: I was 14 yrs of age, and it was my soul mate. I believe that he was and is to this day.
Where are you Michael Jacobs, from Mount Vernon?
Melissa: When did you wish that you knew then what you know now, when you were younger?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would say now, presently speaking. I would have saved more, invests, no credit cards or just had one credit card. And men, oh boy if I knew what I knew about them, I would have stayed a virgin! LOL! I am doing better about monies. It is a learning process, and I will and am getting better.
Melissa: Share a random confession about your youth?
Mamasgirlalexis: I would like to share that I was a singer and I my groups were Mary Jane Girls and a group called Mtume. And my brother and cousins were the back up singers (Brian, Timothy and Tyrone) . I would wear my weave of a skirt hair before weave was known, my cousins (girl cousin) heels and ankle socks with my comb mic. We were the bestess groups around! Our audience was the greatest and bestess ever known. My mommy, aunt and the rest of my cousins! Give them a round of applause....... Yhay!!
I hope you enjoyed the sneak peep of my inside life, before and now! hahahahaha
Gotta love ya!! Now that I have gladly accepted my Blogger award, there are rules that I would
send the Blogger Award to 5 fellow blogger. This is a great Award that shows that we appreciate you and your blog. And to keep up the great and fantastic writings etc.
My 5 Fellow Blogger Award goes to:
1. Hannahmiet - What can I say about this blogger, her writings of poetry is beautifully written. Her poetry is a work of art, she is a breath of fresh air to the lungs. If you do not know how that feels, then I suggest to take a look at her writings on the wall of blogging.
2. Sugahoney - Her blog is the truth and with the realness of her best life stories which is about her self and friends etc. The life stories have you asking yourself, why haven't she written a book as of yet.
3. Houseofflyness - This blog writings is so inspirational and very uplifting. She is so positive, and she has a great outlook on life.
4. Sexandthesouthernbelle - Her blog is very informational, funny and would keep your attention.
5. Somanylosers - What can I say, his blog is .... Check it for yourself.... I like his blog alot!!!!
He holds nothing back and I like that about him. He has you think, think and think again. : )
So, there you have it, my 5 fellow blogger is being awarded the Sunshine Blogger Award.
You bring the smiles, cries, and the laughter and much more out of me. You all deserve this award for your each individual and unique selves. Keep up the great blogs....
Later Beautiful People and I hope my brother and cousins do not read this post! LOL
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
The Differences between being a Dad vs.Father
I was a newborn to an infant and then a toddler to pre-teens, teens and then to adulthood with a Father, an absent father that is. I know that I would have loved to have been raised by both parents. Only if my father was a dad and not just a father (Sperm Donor). I was raised by a Great, Intelligent, Strong and Loving Woman. She is my mommy, dad, supporter, best friend and my heart!
Don't get me wrong, I do love my father because he is my father and he had a hand in me being here on this earth. His faults and his reasons for not being a dad to me and my brother is unknown. I don't know if his dad was absent from his life (no excuse) and he did not know any better. Maybe it had something to do with the way he was raised (no excuse). Either way my father was not there for me or my brother.
We would see him every now and then and once in awhile we would speak with him on the phone. When we did see him we did not have much to say to one another because he did not know me or my brother and we did not know much about him. He wasn't a very big part of our lives.
We only knew some things about our father because my mommy, aunt, uncle and friends would speak of him. Even though my father was not there for us, my mommy did not talk bad about our father to us because she wanted me and my brother to have the opportunity of getting to know about our father and make our own decisions and choices about him. I know I really respect my mommy for that because I know my mommy had it hard with raising us on her own. My mommy is a single parent and she is the Best mommy, dad, supporter and best friend to have in our life. We are really blessed to have my mommy as our mommy and dad!
I know it would have been better for her and alot more easier to raise me and my brother if she had the support of the other parent, full support not half ass support. We (mommy,myself and brother) would have loved to have a dad and not just a father (sperm donor).
A father can be someone that isn't there for the child(ren) at all. Does not support the child(ren) in any kind of way. Has no emotional connection to the child(ren), no say in how or what the child(ren) does. He may not provide food, clothing, shelter, under garments, shoes, sneakers, a listening ear to your first crush, that first F or A on the report card, no bed time stories, etc.
Then you have the father that provides financial support only. But no emotional ties or connection with the child(ren). He will provide money, clothes, shoes, food and shelter but then again no emotional connection with the child(ren).
To me any man that is only a Father is just the sperm donor. He is half part of why I, you, him and her is on this earth.
A Dad to me is one that already knows that he wants to be a dad. A dad is a man that can admit that he is scared when a woman comes to him and says she is pregnant and he does not run. A dad is there at the appointments with the woman, he is there at the hospital when the child is born. A dad starts from the beginning of time.
A dad can also be that outside man that stepped up to the plate and took the role of being a dad. The outside man which is not biologically your dad but is your dad!
A dad is the whole package, a man that takes responsibility of his child(ren). A dad is there when you have your first knee scrape, your first crush, even your first fight in school. A dad is a supporter along with mommy, he is there to read bedtime stories, kiss the bruise on the forehead from falling off that bike. He will be the one that supports you in your decisions, choices and I think we can leave the womanly things to mommy to handle. A dad will bring that cookie to your room and say don't tell mommy because we will both be in trouble.
A dad is someone that is there for your first date, first kiss, and even to tell you about girls/boys and of course stay away from the boys, they are no good!
A dad spends time with you and get to know you all over again as you grow from that newborn, infant, toddler, pre -teen, teens and then to adulthood. A dad is someone that you can talk to, hang out with and even make fun of at times about those tight sweat pants. A dad is the one that would bathe you and tuck you in at night. Daddy is the protector , the one that is your prince. A dad is loving, caring, respectful, understanding many times, a sucker when it comes to his daddy's little girl or dad's little man(not much of a sucker with the boy though). Because the boy cannot be too soft.
This is my differences between being a dad vs. father.
A dad is a man and is well respected by me. A dad is many faces and grow along with the many paces of the child(ren). He goes through the growing pains and the phases as the child(ren) goes through theirs. He is dad and he will always be there for his child(ren) no matter the circumstance.
Don't get me wrong, I do love my father because he is my father and he had a hand in me being here on this earth. His faults and his reasons for not being a dad to me and my brother is unknown. I don't know if his dad was absent from his life (no excuse) and he did not know any better. Maybe it had something to do with the way he was raised (no excuse). Either way my father was not there for me or my brother.
We would see him every now and then and once in awhile we would speak with him on the phone. When we did see him we did not have much to say to one another because he did not know me or my brother and we did not know much about him. He wasn't a very big part of our lives.
We only knew some things about our father because my mommy, aunt, uncle and friends would speak of him. Even though my father was not there for us, my mommy did not talk bad about our father to us because she wanted me and my brother to have the opportunity of getting to know about our father and make our own decisions and choices about him. I know I really respect my mommy for that because I know my mommy had it hard with raising us on her own. My mommy is a single parent and she is the Best mommy, dad, supporter and best friend to have in our life. We are really blessed to have my mommy as our mommy and dad!
I know it would have been better for her and alot more easier to raise me and my brother if she had the support of the other parent, full support not half ass support. We (mommy,myself and brother) would have loved to have a dad and not just a father (sperm donor).
A father can be someone that isn't there for the child(ren) at all. Does not support the child(ren) in any kind of way. Has no emotional connection to the child(ren), no say in how or what the child(ren) does. He may not provide food, clothing, shelter, under garments, shoes, sneakers, a listening ear to your first crush, that first F or A on the report card, no bed time stories, etc.
Then you have the father that provides financial support only. But no emotional ties or connection with the child(ren). He will provide money, clothes, shoes, food and shelter but then again no emotional connection with the child(ren).
To me any man that is only a Father is just the sperm donor. He is half part of why I, you, him and her is on this earth.
A Dad to me is one that already knows that he wants to be a dad. A dad is a man that can admit that he is scared when a woman comes to him and says she is pregnant and he does not run. A dad is there at the appointments with the woman, he is there at the hospital when the child is born. A dad starts from the beginning of time.
A dad can also be that outside man that stepped up to the plate and took the role of being a dad. The outside man which is not biologically your dad but is your dad!
A dad is the whole package, a man that takes responsibility of his child(ren). A dad is there when you have your first knee scrape, your first crush, even your first fight in school. A dad is a supporter along with mommy, he is there to read bedtime stories, kiss the bruise on the forehead from falling off that bike. He will be the one that supports you in your decisions, choices and I think we can leave the womanly things to mommy to handle. A dad will bring that cookie to your room and say don't tell mommy because we will both be in trouble.
A dad is someone that is there for your first date, first kiss, and even to tell you about girls/boys and of course stay away from the boys, they are no good!
A dad spends time with you and get to know you all over again as you grow from that newborn, infant, toddler, pre -teen, teens and then to adulthood. A dad is someone that you can talk to, hang out with and even make fun of at times about those tight sweat pants. A dad is the one that would bathe you and tuck you in at night. Daddy is the protector , the one that is your prince. A dad is loving, caring, respectful, understanding many times, a sucker when it comes to his daddy's little girl or dad's little man(not much of a sucker with the boy though). Because the boy cannot be too soft.
This is my differences between being a dad vs. father.
A dad is a man and is well respected by me. A dad is many faces and grow along with the many paces of the child(ren). He goes through the growing pains and the phases as the child(ren) goes through theirs. He is dad and he will always be there for his child(ren) no matter the circumstance.
Monday, March 1, 2010
The Voice
The voice of a man that make you rethink Celibacy?
OK, I will tell you what I am talking about, you got it out of me!
I have a blind date soon, so you know that I have never seen him before.
He has seen a picture of me but he doesn't know that it is me. It can be a fake for all he knows.
He called me last night and as soon as I picked up the phone, he Voice sent chills and throbs in places
that I thought was not alive any more! LOL
I was into his voice for the rest of the night. We talked until 3 something am in the morning.
I am practicing celibacy right now and the Voice had me re-thinking Celibacy!!!!!
Yes, he has that type of deep, raspy, sexy, lovemaking, lay it down type of Voice........Whew!
He states that he is in the studio all of the time because he produces and I thought of having the Bestess Love Making on the studio equipment.. I mean that Hot, Passionate, Taking clothes off with the teeth type of Sex.............................................................
That is the way his Voice makes me feel is, he had me all to him self last night.
I don't know if I want to meet him in person, because he may not look like how his Voice sounds.
I may just use him for the Voice. He can be my Voice man only..................................
Whew, I cannot wait to hear that Voice tonight....
OMG is all I can say tonight. I will keep all of MY BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE in tuned!!
You will be known of our progress....
Friday, February 19, 2010
My Tropical Island
Picture Credits Go To : http://tropic-island.net/I need and want to tell you that I am in Tropical Dream Land right now with my Orange Dream Smoothie.
I do not know if you , you or even you know of or heard about or even have a Tropical Smoothie in your location (State)!
If you do please check out Tropical Smoothie Cafe............
They serve Fantastic Real Fruit Smoothies, Bistro Sandwichies, Fresh Salads, Toasted Wraps, Flatbreads and even Breakfast....
I do not know if you , you or even you know of or heard about or even have a Tropical Smoothie in your location (State)!
If you do please check out Tropical Smoothie Cafe............
They serve Fantastic Real Fruit Smoothies, Bistro Sandwichies, Fresh Salads, Toasted Wraps, Flatbreads and even Breakfast....
I was introduced to Tropical Smoothie Cafe by two co-workers several months ago.
I placed an order for the Jetty Junior Smoothie which is strawberries & banana.
I tell you this, I was in love with first sip of the straw. : )
The Smoothies I have tried & My Favorites:
Super Charged Smoothies:
Immune Blaster
Stress Defender
Very Berry Green Tea
I placed an order for the Jetty Junior Smoothie which is strawberries & banana.
I tell you this, I was in love with first sip of the straw. : )
The Smoothies I have tried & My Favorites:
Super Charged Smoothies:
Immune Blaster
Stress Defender
Very Berry Green Tea
Low Fat Smoothies:
Hawaii Breeze
Hawaii Breeze
Peaches n Silk
Super Fruit Smoothies:
Get up and Goji
Pomegranate Plunge*
Limited Time Smoothies:
Cranberry Truffle
Cranberry Truffle
Retired Smoothies:
Orange Dream
Experiences with my Super Charged Smoothies:
*I have been sick with a cold or my sinuses is messing with me or I am just tired from too little rest. Immune Blaster smoothie was a life saver, I had more energy and had more of a pep to my step and not to mention very good tasting smoothie. Favorite of mines
*When I have been stressed about moving, not enough sleep or just frustrated, I tried stress defender smoothie and I was amazed on her it helped me feel more relaxed.
Favorite of mines
*Omg, I love Green Tea, so the very berry green tea is a favorite not to mention the benefits from green tea(colds,sinuses, etc.)
Low Fat Smoothies:
I do like the hawaii breeze.
I think the peaches n silk is ok.
Super Fruit Smoothies:
I do like the get up and goji.
I did get a taste of the Pomegranate Plunge from my mommy and it is Great!
Limited & Retired Smoothies:
Cranberry Truffle & Orange Dream is my Favorites as well! : )
I am also in love with The Italian Bistro sandwich which has:
*Spicy ham, Ham, Provolone, Banana Peppers, Parmesan Tomatoes, Fried Greens & Pesto on Toasted Ciabatta
Note: The sandwich did miss the pesto today because the guy forgot my pesto : (!
Even without the pesto, it was still a great and tasty sandwich. The pesto does give the sandwich an extra tasty kick to it............
I wanted to share my Tropical Dream with you all today, if you have a Tropical Smoothie Cafe in your area, please give them a try and let me know what you think?
Check the site out: http://www.tropicalsmoothie.com/
Experiences with my Super Charged Smoothies:
*I have been sick with a cold or my sinuses is messing with me or I am just tired from too little rest. Immune Blaster smoothie was a life saver, I had more energy and had more of a pep to my step and not to mention very good tasting smoothie. Favorite of mines
*When I have been stressed about moving, not enough sleep or just frustrated, I tried stress defender smoothie and I was amazed on her it helped me feel more relaxed.
Favorite of mines
*Omg, I love Green Tea, so the very berry green tea is a favorite not to mention the benefits from green tea(colds,sinuses, etc.)
Low Fat Smoothies:
I do like the hawaii breeze.
I think the peaches n silk is ok.
Super Fruit Smoothies:
I do like the get up and goji.
I did get a taste of the Pomegranate Plunge from my mommy and it is Great!
Limited & Retired Smoothies:
Cranberry Truffle & Orange Dream is my Favorites as well! : )
I am also in love with The Italian Bistro sandwich which has:
*Spicy ham, Ham, Provolone, Banana Peppers, Parmesan Tomatoes, Fried Greens & Pesto on Toasted Ciabatta
Note: The sandwich did miss the pesto today because the guy forgot my pesto : (!
Even without the pesto, it was still a great and tasty sandwich. The pesto does give the sandwich an extra tasty kick to it............
I wanted to share my Tropical Dream with you all today, if you have a Tropical Smoothie Cafe in your area, please give them a try and let me know what you think?
Check the site out: http://www.tropicalsmoothie.com/
Tropical Smoothie Cafe Slogan: eat better & feel beeter
This slogan is the Best....
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Different Now, Why?
We would text everyday, talk everyday or at least every other day.
We would go to the movies, car shows, plays and dinner because we are best of friends.
We would talk about mainly everything because we are comfortable with each other.
We knew of each others dislikes, likes and the horror stories of our individual dates.
We knew of each other's secrets and desires because we are very best of friends.
I just do not understand, well I do understand that it would change just a little when one of us do get involved (relationship).
Did not know that the friendship would not exist anymore......
I know that we may not talk, text or even hang out as much because of the new relationship.
Had no clue that you just did not want our friendship any longer. We both did not see our friendship as a season. We seen as a Reason for Lifetime....
I would like to continue on being friends and being in his life , I want to meet your new woman and that way she will get to know me. I was a part of your life for many years and how can a friendship be throw away that easily.
Now, the text, talk and hanging out has stopped completely.
If we was friends before the relationship, and when I was in a relationship I made time for my friend still.
I do understand that friendships will change a little because the time is made for the new partner and hopefully life partner.
I see relationships as being important because I do not allow just anyone into my life.
Relationships (Family ship, friendship,boyfriend and marriage) is very important and when someone finds a Great Friend, hold on to them because it is very hard to find a Great Friends!
It is a blessing .......
Continue to find time for your friend, just don't cut them loose because now your in a relationship
If that man/woman decides to not be the life partner for you, then guess who is there to help you through your heartbreak(Besides Family) your Bestess Friend......
I was asked some time ago to write about this topic.
I wanted to write from experience and I also asked the friend that did have help in my experience with this situation.
Alexis: Why is that when you was in a relationship, why did our friendship stop?
Him: I was so into her.
Alexis: I do understand that you would be giving her more time, but do not forget about your Great friends.. And I understand that we may not talk, text or even hang out much but just find the time. Great friends are hard to come by, accept and be grateful for the blessing of having a Great friend that would be there with you thick and thin and the same rules apply to you........
Him: I do apologize and I am very sorry for hurting you in that way
Alexis: I know you but if it was to happen again, I know where you live and I would put you in a choke hold.
Him: I will call the cops
Alexis: When I am released, I will come back to you and choke you out again....
Him: I will call the cops again and again
Alexis: I will come back again and again to choke you out
Him: You are crazy,LOL
Alexis: Yes, I am LOL
Alexis: Just want you to know that as a your friend I am here but not just here when you are not involved. If we are going to continue being friends then we deserve to be treated as a lifetime friendship. I wanted you to know that I was hurt by your actions.
Him: I understand and I am sorry......
Alexis: I am not playing with your butt anymore,LOL!
To "MY BEAUTIFUL PERSON/SUPPORTER/READER":
I do understand that you have been going through this situation and you two had a great relationship and now that he is involved with his partner, he has no use of the friendship that you two have had over the years.
I would suggest that you talk with him, and hopefully he would understand on how you feel.
He is currently all into her and now he has no idea on how to distinguish the two relationships.
I hope my experience and the answer from my friend has helped you.
I would love to hear from all My Beautiful People, your experience, advice and opinion on this situation......
We would go to the movies, car shows, plays and dinner because we are best of friends.
We would talk about mainly everything because we are comfortable with each other.
We knew of each others dislikes, likes and the horror stories of our individual dates.
We knew of each other's secrets and desires because we are very best of friends.
I just do not understand, well I do understand that it would change just a little when one of us do get involved (relationship).
Did not know that the friendship would not exist anymore......
I know that we may not talk, text or even hang out as much because of the new relationship.
Had no clue that you just did not want our friendship any longer. We both did not see our friendship as a season. We seen as a Reason for Lifetime....
I would like to continue on being friends and being in his life , I want to meet your new woman and that way she will get to know me. I was a part of your life for many years and how can a friendship be throw away that easily.
Now, the text, talk and hanging out has stopped completely.
If we was friends before the relationship, and when I was in a relationship I made time for my friend still.
I do understand that friendships will change a little because the time is made for the new partner and hopefully life partner.
I see relationships as being important because I do not allow just anyone into my life.
Relationships (Family ship, friendship,boyfriend and marriage) is very important and when someone finds a Great Friend, hold on to them because it is very hard to find a Great Friends!
It is a blessing .......
Continue to find time for your friend, just don't cut them loose because now your in a relationship
If that man/woman decides to not be the life partner for you, then guess who is there to help you through your heartbreak(Besides Family) your Bestess Friend......
I was asked some time ago to write about this topic.
I wanted to write from experience and I also asked the friend that did have help in my experience with this situation.
Alexis: Why is that when you was in a relationship, why did our friendship stop?
Him: I was so into her.
Alexis: I do understand that you would be giving her more time, but do not forget about your Great friends.. And I understand that we may not talk, text or even hang out much but just find the time. Great friends are hard to come by, accept and be grateful for the blessing of having a Great friend that would be there with you thick and thin and the same rules apply to you........
Him: I do apologize and I am very sorry for hurting you in that way
Alexis: I know you but if it was to happen again, I know where you live and I would put you in a choke hold.
Him: I will call the cops
Alexis: When I am released, I will come back to you and choke you out again....
Him: I will call the cops again and again
Alexis: I will come back again and again to choke you out
Him: You are crazy,LOL
Alexis: Yes, I am LOL
Alexis: Just want you to know that as a your friend I am here but not just here when you are not involved. If we are going to continue being friends then we deserve to be treated as a lifetime friendship. I wanted you to know that I was hurt by your actions.
Him: I understand and I am sorry......
Alexis: I am not playing with your butt anymore,LOL!
To "MY BEAUTIFUL PERSON/SUPPORTER/READER":
I do understand that you have been going through this situation and you two had a great relationship and now that he is involved with his partner, he has no use of the friendship that you two have had over the years.
I would suggest that you talk with him, and hopefully he would understand on how you feel.
He is currently all into her and now he has no idea on how to distinguish the two relationships.
I hope my experience and the answer from my friend has helped you.
I would love to hear from all My Beautiful People, your experience, advice and opinion on this situation......
WTF! The things we endure at times....
Me and my mommy went to this apartment complex named Crosswinds located in Chesapeake, Virginia.
Wow, this experience is unforgettable in the worst way, LOL !
Me and my mommy gladly walk into the leasing office and it is only one lady in the office and she is on the phone. She did not acknowledge us at all, so I said hello and she still said nothing.
(I know, we should have just walked out)
When she finally gets off the phone, she said yes how may I help you?
(It was hurting her to ask us that)
So, I say to her that I called yesterday and made an appointment for this morning at 9:30am.
She said: You did, who did you speak with?
Note: When she was on the phone, she stated her name was Cherie
So, I say that I spoke with someone named Cherie and I came in to look at a model apartment.
( I was being sarcastic, I really wanted to say:You know you are only one in this damn office, you nasty a@$ B*%!^!)
I know, I know but her attitude was out of this world!!!!
She said: That was me and then she grabs her keys and gets up with more of an attitude and yells upstairs to a make believe person named Fred, I am locking the doors and then says to us, it is to the right with attitude..........
Me and mommy stood there looking at each other like WTF is her Freaking problem!
She walks in front of us really fast, leaving us behind and to mention with her too the side heels that should have been flats and dirty ass pants and her wig that was greased down to her head with blue coloring in front of her hair................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As she walks, she is YELLING out, IF YOUR LICENSE&LICENSE PLATES MATCH, YOU GET A FREE DECAL, DID YOU HEAR ME? AND THEN SHE REPEATS IT AGAIN, IF YOUR LICENSE & LICENSE PLATES MATCH , YOU GET A FREE DECAL & AND IF YOUR VISITORS HAVE MATCHING PLATES&LICENSE, THEY GET A FREE PARKING PASS FOR A WEEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Why did we not leave her ASS walking by her self, we should have turned around and let her ASS & TALK to herself.
We go inside to the apartment and me and mommy rushed through the apartment and leave out. Cherie all of a sudden looks surprised and we are walking back towards the front of the building where we parked in front of the leasing office and as she is unlocking the door, we continue to the car and I say Thank You, and she was like oh OK (Duh Look) and then Cherie says you welcome.
I was still friendly because I know we made her feel stupid, dumb, foolish and an ASS at the end.
No one should endure rudeness and sometimes it happens, maybe we accept it at times because we know how to make a person feel bad about how they treated you (us).
Sometimes we know if we knock a person straight out, then it is charges that may be filed, LOL!
It is ways to let a person know that they are Rude A$% F*&K**S that need to be put in their place.
Me & my mom talked about the experience in the car, we could have left or told her ASS off....
So, my mom called her ASS back and told her Rude ASS off!
It went like this:
My Mommy:
Is this Cherie?
You was very rude and very unprofessional to be in the position that you have.
"That attitude should be stuffed up your A$@!" ( SIKE) This is what I was thinking,LOL!
Back to what my mommy said: You need to check your attitude because it was UN called for.
How can you be in this position you are in with that nasty attitude.
You Cherie, have a great day and mommy hung up the phone very nicely....
You could hear Cherie, saying, but but, I , I wasn't , but....
You go mommy!!!!
The things we endure at times....
2ND Scenario of today: Drivers
OK, I dropped mommy off and headed off to work, and of course no one knows how to Drive!
I am in the far right lane and so this van to the left of me cuts in front of this truck in front of me and almost caused the truck to rear end his van. I decided to get over to the left lane and the guy in the van is looking down at something in his lap ( so, you know why he almost caused the accident)
He wasn't paying damn attention!
I made sure I was clear to get back over to the right lane so that I can get onto I264 West and I looked at my rear view mirror and I see the truck flying on side of the van and then he cuts the van off!
It was not cautious but people on the road make you want to slap the Shit out of them.
Just line all of the non cautious people up on the side road and just start slapping down the line at least 10 freaking times!
While slapping I will be yelling at them about their driving, and then take all license and cars away from them all ! (This would be a great idea, lol!)
Note: I also wish I had a truck that has a shovel located and hooked on the front of my truck and when someone acts stupid on the road, I want to push their Ass to the side of road and make their ASS park their car.......... LOL!!!!
I am not perfect at driving but I am cautious for self and others. When I drive I am driving for everyone else.
I Use to Love Love Driving, Yes key word Use to! : )
Note: I did put a thumbs up to the guy in the Truck!
I just get so frustrated with people on the road because they don't think about others on the road......
I was wrong to put a thumbs but he wanted to make the guy in the van know what he did to him on the road!!!!
DAMN DRIVERS!
Wow, this experience is unforgettable in the worst way, LOL !
Me and my mommy gladly walk into the leasing office and it is only one lady in the office and she is on the phone. She did not acknowledge us at all, so I said hello and she still said nothing.
(I know, we should have just walked out)
When she finally gets off the phone, she said yes how may I help you?
(It was hurting her to ask us that)
So, I say to her that I called yesterday and made an appointment for this morning at 9:30am.
She said: You did, who did you speak with?
Note: When she was on the phone, she stated her name was Cherie
So, I say that I spoke with someone named Cherie and I came in to look at a model apartment.
( I was being sarcastic, I really wanted to say:You know you are only one in this damn office, you nasty a@$ B*%!^!)
I know, I know but her attitude was out of this world!!!!
She said: That was me and then she grabs her keys and gets up with more of an attitude and yells upstairs to a make believe person named Fred, I am locking the doors and then says to us, it is to the right with attitude..........
Me and mommy stood there looking at each other like WTF is her Freaking problem!
She walks in front of us really fast, leaving us behind and to mention with her too the side heels that should have been flats and dirty ass pants and her wig that was greased down to her head with blue coloring in front of her hair................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As she walks, she is YELLING out, IF YOUR LICENSE&LICENSE PLATES MATCH, YOU GET A FREE DECAL, DID YOU HEAR ME? AND THEN SHE REPEATS IT AGAIN, IF YOUR LICENSE & LICENSE PLATES MATCH , YOU GET A FREE DECAL & AND IF YOUR VISITORS HAVE MATCHING PLATES&LICENSE, THEY GET A FREE PARKING PASS FOR A WEEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Why did we not leave her ASS walking by her self, we should have turned around and let her ASS & TALK to herself.
We go inside to the apartment and me and mommy rushed through the apartment and leave out. Cherie all of a sudden looks surprised and we are walking back towards the front of the building where we parked in front of the leasing office and as she is unlocking the door, we continue to the car and I say Thank You, and she was like oh OK (Duh Look) and then Cherie says you welcome.
I was still friendly because I know we made her feel stupid, dumb, foolish and an ASS at the end.
No one should endure rudeness and sometimes it happens, maybe we accept it at times because we know how to make a person feel bad about how they treated you (us).
Sometimes we know if we knock a person straight out, then it is charges that may be filed, LOL!
It is ways to let a person know that they are Rude A$% F*&K**S that need to be put in their place.
Me & my mom talked about the experience in the car, we could have left or told her ASS off....
So, my mom called her ASS back and told her Rude ASS off!
It went like this:
My Mommy:
Is this Cherie?
You was very rude and very unprofessional to be in the position that you have.
"That attitude should be stuffed up your A$@!" ( SIKE) This is what I was thinking,LOL!
Back to what my mommy said: You need to check your attitude because it was UN called for.
How can you be in this position you are in with that nasty attitude.
You Cherie, have a great day and mommy hung up the phone very nicely....
You could hear Cherie, saying, but but, I , I wasn't , but....
You go mommy!!!!
The things we endure at times....
2ND Scenario of today: Drivers
OK, I dropped mommy off and headed off to work, and of course no one knows how to Drive!
I am in the far right lane and so this van to the left of me cuts in front of this truck in front of me and almost caused the truck to rear end his van. I decided to get over to the left lane and the guy in the van is looking down at something in his lap ( so, you know why he almost caused the accident)
He wasn't paying damn attention!
I made sure I was clear to get back over to the right lane so that I can get onto I264 West and I looked at my rear view mirror and I see the truck flying on side of the van and then he cuts the van off!
It was not cautious but people on the road make you want to slap the Shit out of them.
Just line all of the non cautious people up on the side road and just start slapping down the line at least 10 freaking times!
While slapping I will be yelling at them about their driving, and then take all license and cars away from them all ! (This would be a great idea, lol!)
Note: I also wish I had a truck that has a shovel located and hooked on the front of my truck and when someone acts stupid on the road, I want to push their Ass to the side of road and make their ASS park their car.......... LOL!!!!
I am not perfect at driving but I am cautious for self and others. When I drive I am driving for everyone else.
I Use to Love Love Driving, Yes key word Use to! : )
Note: I did put a thumbs up to the guy in the Truck!
I just get so frustrated with people on the road because they don't think about others on the road......
I was wrong to put a thumbs but he wanted to make the guy in the van know what he did to him on the road!!!!
DAMN DRIVERS!
Friday, February 12, 2010
THE NEW WAY TO APPROVE A MAN?
Has it come to this nowadays?
The New Way To Approve A Man Application I received today from my co-worker to review, laugh and wonder....
Has it come to giving applications to potential friends, lovers and more?
I will agree that it is very hard to meet that one person that is the one for you.
It gets frustrating, lonely and down right disgusted.
It is very hard to find a man/woman that is close to your perfect. The one that accepts you for you and only you.
The application asks for all types of information like this:
Name: Last, First and Middle " Not Initial but Full Middle Name"
Address:
Telephone: Home, Work and Cell
Date Of Birth, Age, Height and Weight
Ethnicity: Black, Hispanic, White or other
Where do you live with: Parents(Mother,Father or both), Girlfriend,Baby Mama, Shelter etc.
Any Children: 1, 2, 3 or more
How many Baby Mamas: 1, 2, 3 or more and please provide names
Ever Been Married: once, twice or more
Are you or have you ever been on the down low: If yes, Stop filling out application
Do you owe child support: Yes, No or I don't know
*If your ex-wife is getting state benefits(childcare, food stamps.etc) STOP HERE and take care of kids.
Education: Any education at all
Have you been in Jail/Prison: If yes, what was the crime and time spent
Employed: Yes or No (If NO please STOP HERE)
Do you have health insurance:
Last visit to Dentist, Man Doctor, Any illnesses(List the following:Hepatitis,Gonorrhea, etc.)
If Yes, STOP HERE
By signing you agree that all information given is true to the best of your knowledge. For my protection, you may be asked to provide state ID, birth certificate, recent pay stub, recent clean bill of health from a certified physician.
Do you of have you ever used these: Heroin, Paint Markers, Ecstasy, Crack/Cocaine, etc.
Any Falsifying information may result in termination of this relationship (if applicable). and a severe a** whooping by my project cousins Pookie, Ray Ray, Darnell, Lil Krazy or all of the above
Just seeing the questions in an application form is funny.... LOL!!
If you think about it, the questions have been asked over the period of time to that special someone, friend, lover or more.
The questions may have been asked a little differently but it is the same question to many.
What do you think of this application should there be more questions or leave as is?
This application can be a starter out app:, because the questions can go deeper then this over time when we are getting to know someone.
I would like to know what you think about this application and what questions do you ask a man/woman? What questions should be added to this application?
My questions I ask and that should be added to application is:
1. Are you respectful?
2. Are you a romantic?
3. Are you spontaneous?
I have many more questions that is and will be asked over time.
* What do my Beautiful People Think?
The New Way To Approve A Man Application I received today from my co-worker to review, laugh and wonder....
Has it come to giving applications to potential friends, lovers and more?
I will agree that it is very hard to meet that one person that is the one for you.
It gets frustrating, lonely and down right disgusted.
It is very hard to find a man/woman that is close to your perfect. The one that accepts you for you and only you.
The application asks for all types of information like this:
Name: Last, First and Middle " Not Initial but Full Middle Name"
Address:
Telephone: Home, Work and Cell
Date Of Birth, Age, Height and Weight
Ethnicity: Black, Hispanic, White or other
Where do you live with: Parents(Mother,Father or both), Girlfriend,Baby Mama, Shelter etc.
Any Children: 1, 2, 3 or more
How many Baby Mamas: 1, 2, 3 or more and please provide names
Ever Been Married: once, twice or more
Are you or have you ever been on the down low: If yes, Stop filling out application
Do you owe child support: Yes, No or I don't know
*If your ex-wife is getting state benefits(childcare, food stamps.etc) STOP HERE and take care of kids.
Education: Any education at all
Have you been in Jail/Prison: If yes, what was the crime and time spent
Employed: Yes or No (If NO please STOP HERE)
Do you have health insurance:
Last visit to Dentist, Man Doctor, Any illnesses(List the following:Hepatitis,Gonorrhea, etc.)
If Yes, STOP HERE
By signing you agree that all information given is true to the best of your knowledge. For my protection, you may be asked to provide state ID, birth certificate, recent pay stub, recent clean bill of health from a certified physician.
Do you of have you ever used these: Heroin, Paint Markers, Ecstasy, Crack/Cocaine, etc.
Any Falsifying information may result in termination of this relationship (if applicable). and a severe a** whooping by my project cousins Pookie, Ray Ray, Darnell, Lil Krazy or all of the above
Just seeing the questions in an application form is funny.... LOL!!
If you think about it, the questions have been asked over the period of time to that special someone, friend, lover or more.
The questions may have been asked a little differently but it is the same question to many.
What do you think of this application should there be more questions or leave as is?
This application can be a starter out app:, because the questions can go deeper then this over time when we are getting to know someone.
I would like to know what you think about this application and what questions do you ask a man/woman? What questions should be added to this application?
My questions I ask and that should be added to application is:
1. Are you respectful?
2. Are you a romantic?
3. Are you spontaneous?
I have many more questions that is and will be asked over time.
* What do my Beautiful People Think?
My Imagination running ....
If I had a man/fiance that is a Mechanic
Myself Thinking: I really love my car and I know my Baby (Car) is material. I am thankful and blessed with a car that been around for awhile and she is older now and every time I get something fixed on my Baby, I need to replace/fix something a few weeks/month later. I am debating of getting the exhaust,engine inspected for oil leak/something rattling in my engine, crank sensor, and now my strut that was replaced not too long ago. Thinking about this was making me stress/frustrated and so I allowed my mind to go into imagination overload.
This is my imagination running:
Myself: I do not want to get rid of my car
Man/Fiance Mechanic:I know because when I brought you a new car, you made me take it back
Myself: I know and you know I really appreciated it
Man/Fiance Man: What am I going to do with you?
Myself: I know but ......
Man/Fiance Man: But ......
Myself: I had my car for a long time and she is a good car
Man/Fiance Man: You do have a good car or should I say had, it is time to let go
Man/Fiance Man: Please stop looking like that, with the pouting lips and sad eyes
Myself: Still Pouting and sighing
Man/Fiance Man: I want you to drive my truck(2010 Range Rover) and leave Baby with me. I am going to buy everything new for your baby and fix everything that needs fixing
Myself: OMG, OMG, OMG I love you so much and and and I don't know what to say
Man/Fiance Man: Your smile is enough, come here you Lil brat!!!! LOL
Myself: I'm hugging him and then I wrap my legs around his waist with some kisses all over his face
Man/Fiance Man: I am liking this!
Myself: So..........
Man/Fiance Man: So, I will take care of Baby, and get Baby right for you.
Myself: Great! Why did you take so long to do this
Myself: I know, I know
Man/Finance Man: Just give me a few weeks, so I can get some work out of the way
Myself: Take your time baby, my man
Man/Fiance Man: Smile
This is my imagination running wild.... Only in a perfect world ! LOL.........
Myself Thinking: I really love my car and I know my Baby (Car) is material. I am thankful and blessed with a car that been around for awhile and she is older now and every time I get something fixed on my Baby, I need to replace/fix something a few weeks/month later. I am debating of getting the exhaust,engine inspected for oil leak/something rattling in my engine, crank sensor, and now my strut that was replaced not too long ago. Thinking about this was making me stress/frustrated and so I allowed my mind to go into imagination overload.
This is my imagination running:
Myself: I do not want to get rid of my car
Man/Fiance Mechanic:I know because when I brought you a new car, you made me take it back
Myself: I know and you know I really appreciated it
Man/Fiance Man: What am I going to do with you?
Myself: I know but ......
Man/Fiance Man: But ......
Myself: I had my car for a long time and she is a good car
Man/Fiance Man: You do have a good car or should I say had, it is time to let go
Man/Fiance Man: Please stop looking like that, with the pouting lips and sad eyes
Myself: Still Pouting and sighing
Man/Fiance Man: I want you to drive my truck(2010 Range Rover) and leave Baby with me. I am going to buy everything new for your baby and fix everything that needs fixing
Myself: OMG, OMG, OMG I love you so much and and and I don't know what to say
Man/Fiance Man: Your smile is enough, come here you Lil brat!!!! LOL
Myself: I'm hugging him and then I wrap my legs around his waist with some kisses all over his face
Man/Fiance Man: I am liking this!
Myself: So..........
Man/Fiance Man: So, I will take care of Baby, and get Baby right for you.
Myself: Great! Why did you take so long to do this
Myself: I know, I know
Man/Finance Man: Just give me a few weeks, so I can get some work out of the way
Myself: Take your time baby, my man
Man/Fiance Man: Smile
This is my imagination running wild.... Only in a perfect world ! LOL.........
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Sex Text?
I have a question for you all.
When is it okay to talk Sex after talking to someone after 3days?
If you talk about it, does it show that you are only human with needs?
Does it show the man that you are an easy fix?
Does it show that I am woman that like to talk about things without being judged?
Note: I may have not talked about things (sex, how I really feel, etc.) because I felt it was too soon, or what he say or think of me?
(Just the Old Fashion Woman in me) But I have things I want to say at times without being judged….
What is the guidelines or timeframe that makes it okay?
And while I am writing this, a by stander was looking at what I was writing and stated this:
By stander: “It is okay"
By stander: “You can talk all you want does not mean that it will happen"
By stander: “Have you been talking everyday straight"?
By stander: “Have you had lengthy conversation"?
Me: Yes we have, but it has only been text.
Me: Yes, we have had lengthy text conversations
I guess it does make a difference because it is more personal when it comes to conversation over one of the inventions ( Telephone, Cell Phone ).
Is it bad to talk Sex over text and the thing is I have not heard the voice over the phone as of yet.
What does that say about me?
I will say that I am not ready to hear his voice as of yet.
I don’t want to kill the mystery as of yet.
I may want to hear his voice all of the time (If it is sexy)
Text is fun to a degree.
Seriously, text has taken over and being personal has changed.
What does it say about him?
It could mean that he may have something to hide (girlfriend)?
He does not want to take the mystery out of it?
May want to wait until I am ready to hear each other voice over the thing called phone?
May not be a conversational person on the phone?
I know that I am not ready to talk as of yet.
I will tell you this, I did dial the number and was going to talk but I changed my mind.
So, I just dialed the number and never pushed send. I just closed my phone and continued text.
Yes, I closed my phone; I have a flip phone now. LOL
That is another conversation for you all.
I wanted to bring this up because I am going through my first stages of Celibacy!
Yes, celibacy!
He would mention things like (gym, shower, being tall etc) and that would get me to thinking about,
yes you said it , SEX!
I do like Sex but I chose to go celibate because of several reasons. “Celibacy topic for another time”
I just mentioned to him today that what he said did something to me and he knows of my celibacy.
So, to his advantage he was saying things like a passionate kiss on the lips, a kiss on the neck and looking sexy once we meet.
I will say what he was saying(text) have me taking a deep breath and a long sigh because Sex/Making Love can be great, fun, fulfilling, passionate and among other great feelings and experience.
Note: I did tell him that I enjoy text/call but he can tell that I like to text more. He is waiting for me to be ready for the more personal thingy. LOL
So, my Beautiful People what do you think?
When is it okay to talk Sex after talking to someone after 3days?
If you talk about it, does it show that you are only human with needs?
Does it show the man that you are an easy fix?
Does it show that I am woman that like to talk about things without being judged?
Note: I may have not talked about things (sex, how I really feel, etc.) because I felt it was too soon, or what he say or think of me?
(Just the Old Fashion Woman in me) But I have things I want to say at times without being judged….
What is the guidelines or timeframe that makes it okay?
And while I am writing this, a by stander was looking at what I was writing and stated this:
By stander: “It is okay"
By stander: “You can talk all you want does not mean that it will happen"
By stander: “Have you been talking everyday straight"?
By stander: “Have you had lengthy conversation"?
Me: Yes we have, but it has only been text.
Me: Yes, we have had lengthy text conversations
I guess it does make a difference because it is more personal when it comes to conversation over one of the inventions ( Telephone, Cell Phone ).
Is it bad to talk Sex over text and the thing is I have not heard the voice over the phone as of yet.
What does that say about me?
I will say that I am not ready to hear his voice as of yet.
I don’t want to kill the mystery as of yet.
I may want to hear his voice all of the time (If it is sexy)
Text is fun to a degree.
Seriously, text has taken over and being personal has changed.
What does it say about him?
It could mean that he may have something to hide (girlfriend)?
He does not want to take the mystery out of it?
May want to wait until I am ready to hear each other voice over the thing called phone?
May not be a conversational person on the phone?
I know that I am not ready to talk as of yet.
I will tell you this, I did dial the number and was going to talk but I changed my mind.
So, I just dialed the number and never pushed send. I just closed my phone and continued text.
Yes, I closed my phone; I have a flip phone now. LOL
That is another conversation for you all.
I wanted to bring this up because I am going through my first stages of Celibacy!
Yes, celibacy!
He would mention things like (gym, shower, being tall etc) and that would get me to thinking about,
yes you said it , SEX!
I do like Sex but I chose to go celibate because of several reasons. “Celibacy topic for another time”
I just mentioned to him today that what he said did something to me and he knows of my celibacy.
So, to his advantage he was saying things like a passionate kiss on the lips, a kiss on the neck and looking sexy once we meet.
I will say what he was saying(text) have me taking a deep breath and a long sigh because Sex/Making Love can be great, fun, fulfilling, passionate and among other great feelings and experience.
Note: I did tell him that I enjoy text/call but he can tell that I like to text more. He is waiting for me to be ready for the more personal thingy. LOL
So, my Beautiful People what do you think?
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
I would like for you to be "My Beautiful People"
Hello,
I would like to know my readers. Anyone that takes their time out to read my Blogs , you are supporting me.
I do really appreciate you taking the time out to read and getting to know Mamas Girl Alexis.
I do have a link named: "My Beautiful People" located to the Left by clicking on "Follow", you will be my
beautiful person/supporter and I will know who you are.
Note: You Do Not need a Blog in order to be my beautiful person/supporter.
Thank you Future Beautiful Person,
Love Mamas Girl Alexis : )
I would like to know my readers. Anyone that takes their time out to read my Blogs , you are supporting me.
I do really appreciate you taking the time out to read and getting to know Mamas Girl Alexis.
I do have a link named: "My Beautiful People" located to the Left by clicking on "Follow", you will be my
beautiful person/supporter and I will know who you are.
Note: You Do Not need a Blog in order to be my beautiful person/supporter.
Thank you Future Beautiful Person,
Love Mamas Girl Alexis : )
Monday, February 1, 2010
Emotional, Physical and Mental Abuse?
Does your partner:
humiliate or yell at you?
criticize you and put you down?
treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends or family to see?
ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?
blame you for his own abusive behavior?
see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person?
Does your partner:
act excessively jealous and possessive?
control where you go or what you do?
keep you from seeing your friends or family?
limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
constantly check up on you?
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm#signs
Is this something that needs to be questioned in your relationship?
I ask you this because I believe it is happening to someone that I love and care for.
The things I see right now is:
criticize you and put you down?
act excessively jealous and possessive?
That is the two scenarios I have seen in her relationship. I did ask her not to see him or be bothered but she likes him and just takes it as he can be a jerk at times.
You see many women/men can be assholes or maybe a jerk at times but that is being misunderstood by many of us. It is different when it comes to name calling, criticizing, puttimg you down (be littering), jealousy and being posessive towards the person that you are in a relationship/married to.
That type of behavior becomes a problem and I know that I will (self) not stand for it. I know I haven't made the best choices in men but the men that I did choose to deal with was not right/good for me but I was not abused,however(Playing head games is a mental thing.And it can become mental abuse. I know we as human beings make our choices and we may not make the right choice for ourselves. We all as people/human beings need to make decisions and choices that may not be right for us but that is called learning and growing from our mistakes.
However, we need to know our self worth and know that we deserve better.
We may get lonely or feel pressures of friends,family and society about being married before a certain age, having children and settling down.
Remember we all have our time and it may not be on our friends, family or society time because we are all different, we are indiviuals with our own likes, dislikes and mistakes. God has someone great for us and it takes patience because we may get (women/men) frustrated and lonely but don't settle just because your friends are involved or even more committed (married). The person that God has for you will come eventually.
Until then we need to go through frogs, and four legged creatures.
It is needed for when we finally meet that man/woman worth waiting for.
I and many others want our family and friends to be with someone that has their best at heart, that someone that treats you with respect and love and if we do not go through the wrong one. Then we will not know a great man/woman once they are finally presented to you.
Note: We do not need to live with any type of abuse (Mentally, Phiysical and Emotional) to know a great man/woman in our future.
So, I ask of you please let go of that someone that means you no good.
Let go of that one that has bad intentions for you, do not allow someone to mentally, physically and emotionally abuse you. Get out of it, talk to someone and ask for help. A woman/man does not love you if he treats you like your nothing but dirt under their feet.
Take control of you, love you and know that there is help out here for you.
It is ok to be by yourself, so that you can focus on you and let it be about you.
I love you and God loves you and wants the best for you.
Know that physical, mental and emotional abuse is not different over any other. It is unwanted abuse to anyone. It is not healthy for you , you and you.
If you know of anyone that is living with abuse, mental, physical or emotional abuse. Please ask them and let him/her know that they are not alone and it is help out there. I have some links and a number for further information and help.
No woman, child or man should want or have to live with any type of abuse....
Speak up if you suspect domestic violence or any type of abuse
Do:
Ask.
Express concern.
Listen and validate.
Offer help.
Support her/him decisions
Don’t:
Wait for her/him to come to you.
Judge or blame.
Pressure her/him.
Give advice.
Place conditions on your support.
Don’t:
Wait for her/him to come to you.
Judge or blame.
Pressure her/him.
Give advice.
Important Comment from Amber (Supporter):
This not only goes for your partner, but also your friends. I have had to dump several friends because they became "toxic". Even if they are abusive to others and not to you, it spreads to you like a virus and infects your life. The best thing to do is to cut them off.
I felt that this is very important as well and I wanted to add this comment.
Do not accept abuse from anyone, partner, family or friends!!!!
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) – A crisis intervention and referral phone line for domestic violence. (Texas Council on Family Violence)
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/emotional_psychological_trauma.htm
http://www.cyberparent.com/abuse/exercise.htm
humiliate or yell at you?
criticize you and put you down?
treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends or family to see?
ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?
blame you for his own abusive behavior?
see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person?
Does your partner:
act excessively jealous and possessive?
control where you go or what you do?
keep you from seeing your friends or family?
limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
constantly check up on you?
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm#signs
Is this something that needs to be questioned in your relationship?
I ask you this because I believe it is happening to someone that I love and care for.
The things I see right now is:
criticize you and put you down?
act excessively jealous and possessive?
That is the two scenarios I have seen in her relationship. I did ask her not to see him or be bothered but she likes him and just takes it as he can be a jerk at times.
You see many women/men can be assholes or maybe a jerk at times but that is being misunderstood by many of us. It is different when it comes to name calling, criticizing, puttimg you down (be littering), jealousy and being posessive towards the person that you are in a relationship/married to.
That type of behavior becomes a problem and I know that I will (self) not stand for it. I know I haven't made the best choices in men but the men that I did choose to deal with was not right/good for me but I was not abused,however(Playing head games is a mental thing.And it can become mental abuse. I know we as human beings make our choices and we may not make the right choice for ourselves. We all as people/human beings need to make decisions and choices that may not be right for us but that is called learning and growing from our mistakes.
However, we need to know our self worth and know that we deserve better.
We may get lonely or feel pressures of friends,family and society about being married before a certain age, having children and settling down.
Remember we all have our time and it may not be on our friends, family or society time because we are all different, we are indiviuals with our own likes, dislikes and mistakes. God has someone great for us and it takes patience because we may get (women/men) frustrated and lonely but don't settle just because your friends are involved or even more committed (married). The person that God has for you will come eventually.
Until then we need to go through frogs, and four legged creatures.
It is needed for when we finally meet that man/woman worth waiting for.
I and many others want our family and friends to be with someone that has their best at heart, that someone that treats you with respect and love and if we do not go through the wrong one. Then we will not know a great man/woman once they are finally presented to you.
Note: We do not need to live with any type of abuse (Mentally, Phiysical and Emotional) to know a great man/woman in our future.
So, I ask of you please let go of that someone that means you no good.
Let go of that one that has bad intentions for you, do not allow someone to mentally, physically and emotionally abuse you. Get out of it, talk to someone and ask for help. A woman/man does not love you if he treats you like your nothing but dirt under their feet.
Take control of you, love you and know that there is help out here for you.
It is ok to be by yourself, so that you can focus on you and let it be about you.
I love you and God loves you and wants the best for you.
Know that physical, mental and emotional abuse is not different over any other. It is unwanted abuse to anyone. It is not healthy for you , you and you.
If you know of anyone that is living with abuse, mental, physical or emotional abuse. Please ask them and let him/her know that they are not alone and it is help out there. I have some links and a number for further information and help.
No woman, child or man should want or have to live with any type of abuse....
Speak up if you suspect domestic violence or any type of abuse
Do:
Ask.
Express concern.
Listen and validate.
Offer help.
Support her/him decisions
Don’t:
Wait for her/him to come to you.
Judge or blame.
Pressure her/him.
Give advice.
Place conditions on your support.
Don’t:
Wait for her/him to come to you.
Judge or blame.
Pressure her/him.
Give advice.
Important Comment from Amber (Supporter):
This not only goes for your partner, but also your friends. I have had to dump several friends because they became "toxic". Even if they are abusive to others and not to you, it spreads to you like a virus and infects your life. The best thing to do is to cut them off.
I felt that this is very important as well and I wanted to add this comment.
Do not accept abuse from anyone, partner, family or friends!!!!
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) – A crisis intervention and referral phone line for domestic violence. (Texas Council on Family Violence)
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/emotional_psychological_trauma.htm
http://www.cyberparent.com/abuse/exercise.htm
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Reflect
http://www.prelovac.com/vladimir/beautiful-nature-pictures
Take the time from your busy lives & schedules
Take the time out to reflect on your life.
Take the time to be thankful for all you have.
Be thankful for good health, family and great friends.
Be appreciative of all that you have and the ability to strive and have all of your dreams & goals come true.
Reflect on how you and who you is.
Take time to take care of you.
Always have room within your being to be more faithful, allow God in and to improve yourself for the better....
Learn to have patience or just a little more patience, communication, balance and understanding of self & others.
No when to let certain things go
Also laugh a little more, laughter is good for the soul & heart
Work on letting go of past hurts, disappointments and torture (Pain).
Work on letting go of present (here& now) hurt, pain and disappointments.
Learn how to let go of stress and to have a clear mind.
You can stay focused & concentrate on the important things.
That way you can be stress free and you would have joy....
Learn how to let go of people, person or whom ever that means you no good.
If they do not have good intentions let them go.
Some people are just around for a season, reason or a lifetime.
You will know or will know who is which, believe me.
Take pride in yourself, love yourself and learn yourself.
If no one understands you, at least you will understand yourself. : )
Take the time out to just be you, enjoy things you love& like.
Surround yourself with God, Family, Friends (Great True), and Positive things.
Enjoy yourself, enjoy the things you love & enjoy.
Pamper yourself and be good to yourself
Take the time to reflect about you, life, love and joy....
Learn to take the time to enjoy this beautiful world
Enjoy a piece of art, smell a flower, watch the river flow & see the curves in the street.
Look at the definition of a photograph, smell aromas and enjoy a great book.
Take the time to reflect on the great many things.
I wanted to take this time to write this to self, you & you......
Love you and be you and only you......
Will do, to self
Know that you deserve the best in self, relationship, finances, love, careers etc.
Belive that angels do exist, because I do
( I love Angels)
Note to self: Slow down with the pitbull tude
Friday, January 15, 2010
Situation
Anonymous said...
I would first like to thank you for sharing your experience with everyone. It is very hard to open up to anyone after someone hurts you it takes a lot of courage.
Trust is the expectancy of people that they can rely on your word. It is built through integrity and consistency in relationships.
I am still struggling with this and want to take it a step further after reading your blog.
If a person has had an on and off again relationship with the other person without actually commiting but trying to see if things could work out. If a person is going through personal turmoil that is not specific to your relationship and ask if they can trust you? You say Yes you can trust me. Is it fair for them to use that against you in the relationship prior to the commitment? What I'm trying to say is that person has not commited you the other person is free to date whomever they want to. Yet, when they reach the point of wanting the commitment and feel that you should automatically slip into the commitment mode without discussion. Is it fair for them to pull the trust card out on you? Truth be told often times we move on physically or emotionally when the other person is unable to make up their mind. Are we living in a fairy tale world thinking that Love can last without trust or is it possible? I am not sure about you but I have wasted a lot of time by choice in the longevity of relationships waiting for the trust that never was fully captured. Is it true that the other person when asked really has the answer or are they just trying to figure out if. You can be in love yet struggle with trusting the other person when infedelity has taken place?
Ms. A
January 13, 2010 5:56 PM
Hello Supporters (Friends),
I received this comment and I am going to address this topic fully. I will give my opinion on this topic and I will love to receive feedback from my supporters (friends). Because everyone has their own opinion or very own personal experience on this situation and you ( Ms. A ) maybe able to gain an eye opening realization.
While I am tackling this situation, I would in the mean time love to get your feedback on this....
Thank You Guys.... : )
I would first like to thank you for sharing your experience with everyone. It is very hard to open up to anyone after someone hurts you it takes a lot of courage.
Trust is the expectancy of people that they can rely on your word. It is built through integrity and consistency in relationships.
I am still struggling with this and want to take it a step further after reading your blog.
If a person has had an on and off again relationship with the other person without actually commiting but trying to see if things could work out. If a person is going through personal turmoil that is not specific to your relationship and ask if they can trust you? You say Yes you can trust me. Is it fair for them to use that against you in the relationship prior to the commitment? What I'm trying to say is that person has not commited you the other person is free to date whomever they want to. Yet, when they reach the point of wanting the commitment and feel that you should automatically slip into the commitment mode without discussion. Is it fair for them to pull the trust card out on you? Truth be told often times we move on physically or emotionally when the other person is unable to make up their mind. Are we living in a fairy tale world thinking that Love can last without trust or is it possible? I am not sure about you but I have wasted a lot of time by choice in the longevity of relationships waiting for the trust that never was fully captured. Is it true that the other person when asked really has the answer or are they just trying to figure out if. You can be in love yet struggle with trusting the other person when infedelity has taken place?
Ms. A
January 13, 2010 5:56 PM
Hello Supporters (Friends),
I received this comment and I am going to address this topic fully. I will give my opinion on this topic and I will love to receive feedback from my supporters (friends). Because everyone has their own opinion or very own personal experience on this situation and you ( Ms. A ) maybe able to gain an eye opening realization.
While I am tackling this situation, I would in the mean time love to get your feedback on this....
Thank You Guys.... : )
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